Confusion.

Everything is, and will turn out to be as it should in the end. Everyone's path is different, I understand that. What's tricky is that everyone goes through the same things, just at different rates. But then again, what also comes to play would be personalities, and the different ways people react to different things, such as pain. Yes, a bad subject that hurts, but is it truly better to bottle it up until you can't hold it? To always change the subject? Or is it better to talk it out, it doesn't matter with who, but with someone who will not judge. And by talking it out, I mean having the other person comment, give advice if need be. Which is the better half? It is like a cake, one side one way, the other another. Always there is two ways and not just one. And there are others that constantly reapply themselves to pain, over and over, unable to stop themselves. Doing it to the point it is habit, what is to be done then? Even when told what is needed to be done, habit is in control and keep them from listening, pushing them further and further away.. And there are others that slip into depression with the slightest nudges and is the hardest to be lifted, pulled from it. All in all, it is confusing and twisted with frayed ends, such as life is.